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2020-2021 MIDWEST SHOCKERS YOUTH BASKETBALL PARENT LETTER

Welcome to the Midwest Shockers basketball program. We want this to be a great experience for both you and your child. Our mission is to teach your child basketball in a fun and competitive atmosphere that encourages skill development, sportsmanship, camaraderie and learning how to win and lose with class. Below is a little more detail to let you know what is expected of your youth athlete and what you can expect of the coaches.

Our Goals for the Kids:

  • Seed a passion for basketball in all of our players. Hopefully, this will be the start of a lifetime of playing the game of basketball.
  • Compete, learn something about themselves and grow as athletes and people.
  • Learn basketball skills and fundamentals.
  • Have fun!

Expectations we have of the Coaches: 

  • 100% commitment and respect for your kids as individuals and for the team.
  • Positive attitudes and constant encouragement. An appropriate level of challenging the kids to work hard, which will result in positive results on the court. There is a delicate balance between pushing too hard and not pushing hard enough at the young ages. If you think we're pushing too much, or not enough, just let us know.
  • Structured practices with an appropriate mix of repetition to breed basketball instinct and new drills/routines to avoid boredom and learn new aspects of the game. Expectations we have of the kids:
  • Great attitudes! This is CRITICAL in basketball because it is a game of surges and momentum. If we get discouraged every time a team scores several points in a row on us, we will be defeated. We want the kids to stay calm, dig in and work through it. Similarly, when we make a run on other teams, we want the kids not to be complacent but continue to work hard. If one kid gets down, it can quickly bring everyone down.
  • Work as a TEAM: Basketball is fun when you work as a team. That means EVERYONE plays unselfishly, plays tough defense, hustles, dives and gets rebounds, hustles back on defense, etc...
  • Attend practices and be on time for games (30 minutes before a game for warm-ups).
  • Listen and Learn: We hope and expect all kids that want to play, hustle and have fun. Everyone needs to understand their part and execute. They are accountable to each other and to the coaches. In order to succeed, EVERYONE must listen, learn and execute.
  • Show great sportsmanship ... Win or Lose. 

Please Read Everything Below Closely

Playing Time Will NOT Be Equal Everyone will get plenty of opportunities on the court but we can tell you right now playing time will NOT be equal. There will be some games where your child does not play very much. There will be some games where your child plays a LOT (more than other players).There are countless reasons that playing time varies. Some of those reasons include: 

  • We messed up the rotation or made a mistake.
  • We took a player out because we didn’t feel they were giving their best effort.
  • On occasion We will take players out of the game, sit them down on the bench, and tell them exactly why they were taken out. We find that bench time is a very effective form of motivation.
  • We felt a player was dominating and it was starting to hinder the development of others on our team.
  • We try to give our team a chance to win and match players up a certain way.
  • Your child asked to come out.

Probably the biggest reason playing time varies quite a bit is because we are trying to develop every player on the team as much as we can. If we give everyone “equal” playing time in each game, that will hinder the development of the best players, the average players, and the below average players. For improvement to occur, every player needs to be challenged (they need to fail a little bit) — but not too much. So we adjust playing time to match players up against appropriate competition. We won’t be perfect, but by the end of the season, everyone should get mostly equal opportunities. 2) NO coaching or shouting out instructions from the stands. Parents stick to cheering, clapping, and positive comments only. Leave the coaching to the head coach and the assistant coach on the bench. This is important for lots of reasons…. For one, it’s hard enough to get the players to hear their coaches voice and instructions. When you add a bunch of parents shouting out instructions, it gets really tough for the players to hear and/or process what their coach is saying. Second, sometimes parents yell out instructions that contradict what the coach is telling them. Third, parents yelling out instruction becomes contagious. wet happens all the time. wet starts out with one well intentioned parent (or grandparent) yelling instruction. And before you know it several other chime in and it’s just a blur of too many voices. The players need ONE voice (their coach). We know this is really hard to do. we have been there. And we realize that sometimes the instruction is helpful and you’ll see something the coaches are missing. But the negatives of allowing this clearly out weight the positives. Just relax, have fun, and stick to cheering. 3) Don’t complain about the refs calls. Look, the refs are going to make bad calls. That is just part of youth basketball and what we signed up for. So just accept it and don’t even pay attention to the refs. We want our players to be resilient and we don’t want them worrying about things they can’t control (the refs). When they hear the parents complain, they start to think it’s justified and the refs must be treating them wrong. Then the excuses start to follow. That type of attitude does not fit into our core values and the character skills we are trying to develop with this team. So please don’t complain about the refs or complain to them. Our players are going to be resilient and play through what ever happens on the court. No excuses. Some of the teams we play are going to complain and shout and you name it. Don’t worry about what they do. As most of you already know, things can get ugly in the stands — obnoxious behavior, yelling at kids/coaches/refs, parents getting kicked out. No matter the circumstances, that will NOT be the Midwest coaches, parents, or players! 4) Don’t bother complaining… but please DO give us feedback. We strongly encourage feedback, communication, questions, etc. If you have suggestions, please give them to us. We want to improve as coaches and improve things for our team!! Constructive feedback will help with that. 5) Choose convenient times to talk (not during practice, right before games, or right after games) We always have an “open door policy” for players and parents. We just ask you choose convenient times for this communication. Giving us feedback right before a game, after a game, or before practice probably is NOT a good time! Wait for some down time or even better, let’s schedule a time for us to chat. If you have any questions, let me know. Thanks.

Head Trainer- Sharde' Pratt

Manager/Team Parent

- John Mullins

2022 Spring AAU tournament availability- Please submit by 10-28-21

Please select tournaments you will able to attend. Some tournaments are recommended. If you have any additional concerns, please make note within the "Note to coach" area of submission form. Thank you parents!

Shocker Player Name*

Parent Email Address*

Note to Coach*

2021-2022 SPRING/SUMMER TOURNAMENT AVAILABILITY

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